Medically reviewed by Dr. Sandip Godambe, chief medical officer at CHOC
Effective communication between doctors and caregivers can help boost patient-doctor interaction and outcomes
Good communication isn’t just about smooth interactions; it plays a key role in your child’s treatment success, satisfaction, and overall well-being. By focusing on strengthening the relationship between you and your child’s doctor, we can see how doctors not only provide medical expertise but also foster trust and understanding.
In celebration of Doctors’ Day, it’s important to recognize and appreciate the dedication that doctors bring to their work every day. While their medical expertise is essential, it’s the human side of healthcare—the empathy, the listening, the collaboration—that truly makes a difference. By outlining these tips, we honor their efforts and can help foster stronger connections that lead to better outcomes for your child.
5 Tips for caregivers to boost patient-doctor communication
1. Prepare for appointments
Take a moment before your visit to jot down any questions or concerns about your child’s health. Don’t forget to note even the smallest symptoms they are experiencing, whether it’s a nagging ache or a throbbing pain. Be sure to include details like how often it happens, how long it lasts, and how intense it feels. This can help make sure you cover everything during your child’s appointment.
2. Be honest and open
Bring a list of all the medications your child is taking, this includes prescription medicine, over-the-counter drugs, supplements, and even herbal treatments. Tell your doctor about any recent changes in your child’s health, like new symptoms or medications. If you’re concerned about side effects, make a note of them to discuss.
Be honest about your child’s lifestyle, diet, exercise routine, and mental health. Your doctor must know the full picture to give your child the best care. Don’t withhold information because you think it might be embarrassing.

3. Ask questions
Medical information can feel overwhelming, especially when it’s about your child’s health. If you’re unsure about any medical terms or instructions, don’t hesitate to ask the doctor to explain things in a way that’s easier to understand. It’s important to fully grasp your child’s diagnosis, treatment options, and the next steps in their care.
By asking questions, you can learn about all the treatment choices available, their benefits and risks, and potential side effects. This will help you make the best decisions for your child’s health.
Asking questions also helps ease any worries by giving you a clearer picture of what to expect and ensuring you don’t miss important details, like medication dosages, follow-up care, or any side effects to watch for. Your involvement and understanding are key to your child’s well-being.
4. Follow through with instructions
After your child’s appointment, be sure to talk through the next steps with the doctor. Stick to the plan by scheduling follow-up visits, giving medications as directed, or making any recommended lifestyle changes.
When you understand why a particular treatment or plan is important, it’s easier to stay on track and ensure your child gets the best care possible. Following through with these steps will help support their health and well-being every day.

5. Report any side effects
If your child experiences any side effects, it’s important to let the doctor know right away. Sometimes, side effects can mean the treatment isn’t working as expected, or the dosage might need to be adjusted. Reporting these issues helps the doctor decide if the current plan is still the best fit or if a change is needed.
By sharing any side effects, you’re helping the doctor catch potential problems early before they become serious. This also builds trust between you and your doctor, showing that you’re actively involved in your child’s care and helping ensure they receive the best treatment possible.
Building a strong partnership for your child’s health
When communication is strong, caregivers are more likely to follow treatment plans, ask the right questions, and actively participate in their child’s care, creating a partnership that supports your child’s health journey.
Asking thoughtful questions and keeping an open line of communication with your healthcare provider builds trust and strengthens your relationship, making it easier to address your child’s health needs in the future. This collaborative approach increases the chances of the best possible outcome for your child’s well-being.
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